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When Sean learn to use the laptop, i just let him play educational game hoping that it will improve his motor skill and learning at the same time. Instead, he got bored very fast each time he finish a game. He used to play the playhouse disney game but nowadays whenever i go online he will point the cursor to the search engine and type ‘ultraman’.. for a few time i type for him but every time he saw the same words .. he can type on his own but of course the spelling are incorrect but almost there.. he spelled it ‘ultrmam’.

Now he is more interested in playing Air Strike game with his daddy, i have no objection because its good for a hand and eye coordination practice but i have to limit him with computer game, i don’t want him to wear spectacle at the young age.

So i guess Sean are ready for PS3 but i won’t let him have it now.. he will get it when he is a bit older.  Do they have educational game in there?.. phew.. i prefer my kids to have outdoor game instead of sitting down and play game.. sigh.. kids these days..have to be careful not to spoil them too much.

My nephew, Govind Jeremya are one of thousands of students nationwide taking PMR exam last year. I wanted him to get good grade, so i promised to give him RM50 for every A and my sister promised RM100 per A.

The day he got the result he sms me, ‘mummyley, i got straight A’... wow i thought but still disbelieved i informed my sister.. whom made the promise.. okay its paying time.. lol.

Govind, we are so proud of you.. you grown up before my eyes, i remember you as a cute, short, chubby boy.. lol.. now look at you.. so grown up and smart.. going to be 16 years this year.. long way to go dear.. don’t you think about choosing any engagement rings.. that can wait after you finished your study in the University and  get a steady job.   Focus on your study first.. all the best to you!

Wow!.. it was like yesterday i celebrated New Year with the whole family .. it was last last year.. yesterday, i mean last year only few of us.. my family, nephew, sister and parents.  We celebrated simple dinner and prayer, last year was the simplest, without my sister’s and brother’s family, we were so quite.. lol.

Happy New Year 2009 to everybody.. from us, Shirley, Christopher, Sean Matthew and Chrissa Marie.  May this new year will bring us peace, good health, wealth and happiness! God Bless!!

I wanted to save this post after last meet…but we never met again… Mel and the kids were so busy after balik kampung… so its the first and only time we meet.. oh.. we met in twice in short time and that was when Mel and family landed in Sabah 4 weeks ago.

When she came, i was busy helping a friend’s parents’ anniversary.. remember.. i was doing the RSVP.. so many people calling me ‘regret’.. or .. ‘thanx for the invitation i will see you there’..thingy… so that night Mel arrived.. she left a voice message .. “Hi Shirl,.. this is mel.. i will call you tomorrow” (nice voice with the slang) but i not surprised… thinking this might be one of the invitees… i checked the list… but unable to find any name.. with mel..before or after .. mmm she will call me back i thought.

I was in the office when my hp rang… “Hi Shirl, this is mel…  sya baru sampai”… then i remember.. Mel from Melbourne… unfortunately i cannot take leave that week.. but only that week her family will be in KK after that in Keningau..  We can’t wait to meet…. we decided to meet the next day… . i waited for my hubby to come back from work.. we wanted to meet in Centre Point with the whole family but her kids were tired and sleeping in the hotel… so only Mel had to do her shopping in CP.. once i reached CP.. we called.. actually Mel i dont recognized you… but of course its easy to spot a mummy with two familiar kids… lol.. we talked… and send her to her hotel.

Not the right time.. lol.. because of the noise, kids cant really sleep.. but lucky her husband manage to get better room… we helped shift room… but Annika and Aaron were so wonderful, two lovely kids… easy to get along with.. first time we met i didn’t took any photo.

Before Mel and her family went back to Keningau for a long holiday, we met again.. another short meeting.. here are the pics… no need to take diet pills if you have kids.. kan Mel.. they keep us running around.

the mummy and our daughters…

loving and friendly Aaron, he is so smart and talkative.. i love this boy..

My Sean and  Annika…we wanted to take photo of Chrissa and Aaron but both are talkative and actively walking around..

Sorry Mel we didn’t get the chance to meet before you go back to Melbourne… but i glad we met even in a short while.. love you guys, God Bless!!

Do you believe in ghost or spirit? I am not actually into it but there are times i do feel the presence, you cannot see but you know there is somebody or something near you. I write this because there is something weird happened on Saturday night.

Last Saturday, 20th Dec, i was having dinner with my kids, I was sitting in between my children, Sean was besides me while Chrissa facing the other side. While we were eating, i feel something.. like a breeze.. at the back of me.. and at this time Chrissa hugs and whispered to me.. i didnt really catch what she was saying .. She closed her eyes and held me tight. Sean keeping quite but still eating.. unsatisfied.. i asked sean ‘Sean do you see anybody here?’… Sean jump from his chair.. ‘mummy, mummy.. dont say anything’.. ‘i want to watch tv’ . by then I feel the presence, whatever it is or whoever the person is.. he or she might be standing at the back of me and sean. I asked them if its uncle or auntie.. ugly or nice.. Chrissa said.. like angel.. okay.. can i take a 2 years old word on that?

Chrissa still hugging me with her eyes closed… we moved to the living area, i swith on the tv…my mother used to tell me if you feel a presence of somebody or whatever.. just tell it to go away nicely.. well i did.. i said..’hello siapa tu.. jangan kacau sean sama shasha okay.. bagus2lah kau jalan ah.. dorang kuai ni’… translate..(hello who is that.. please dont disturb sean and chrissa.. just go ..they are nice kids’) After a while Sean and Chrissa playing again.

After i cleared the dining table and wash everything, i still not satisfied.. i know whoever the spirit was.. i know i know him or she very well… in my mind was my late mother in law.. i took her picture with a picture of jesus in front… ‘Chrissa, is this the one came just know’?, ‘no, itu jesus’ said Chrissa… ‘not this one’ i told.. ‘this one’….. ‘no, itu grandma’.. okay confirm not her. I wanted to tell my mother whats happening.. because its so weird but interesting at the same time.

The next day, on Sunday we went to my mother’s home .. before i told her what happened… she asked me if i remember my late grandpa’s birthday (her father) that was yesterday.. on Saturday. Without saying anything.. i burst into tears… i cried out loud.. ‘I should have known it.. it was him’.. i told my mum the whole story …

I was closed to my late grandpa… he passed away in the year 2000.. me, my cousin and my auntie was next to him when he passed away.. he died in front of us… oh grandpa, Mr. Charles Tony Insing .. i missed you sooo much.. i couldn’t stop this tears … how i wish you were still here… i you were here still.. we would be going to so many places, stay at sis’s place in Labuan, Donald’s place in KL, staying in resort and hotel with the family..hotel in las vegas would be impossible but you might be in Adelaide with bro.. wah.. it should have been fun.. it always being great having you…

Oh grandpa… i will continue praying for you.. i hope you will have a good place.. in heaven.. I love you.. thank you for visiting my family… i love you!

I am on holiday mood.. but not yet for Christmas mood.. maybe after confession i will feel the Christmas spirit.

Christmas is just around the corner… everybody thinking of what to gift for their kids, what clothes to wear… and here I am still thinking where to send Sean to school, should i send my daughter to playschool or leave her with the maid at home… thinking about my brother abroad.. haiya.. so many things in my head.. I need to relax a little bit.. or else i will get my migraine again.

Anyway… Santa if you reading this.. all i want for Christmas is this fitness equipment .. i need to exercise and get in shape!

I was at my parents’ since Saturday morning.. having had my niece and my cousin have make my life easier.. lol..  These two teenage girls have been a great helper to me on Saturday, i had fever an really need a rest… while i was sleeping… they cooked and took care of my kids.

At night, my sister bring my daughter to her Christmas party.. another life savior but still had to handle Sean.. undecided of which game he want to play.

Sunday, after church, me, my sister and the two teenagers went to 1Borneo.. in return for their help..  Wow… so many people .. took our lunch, went in and out from one shop to another.. my sister wanted to buy latest cell phone but she ended up looking at cell phone amplifiers but ended up buying nothing.  We check out Toys prices at the ToysRUs…i am eyeing at the Baby Alive Dolls so adorable, i will be back with hubby and his money ..lol..anyway i bought preschooler pc game for my kids.

My niece wanted to play game.. guess what.. we ended up playing car racing.. competing against each other… interesting..  mind you.. i have not have that fun and excitement.. i feel like a teenager.. lol.. really .. it makes me feel young.. i used to play ‘Street Fighter’ when i was a teenager.. i am not sure if my fingers can still fight.. but i am ready for any competition.. lol.

Thanks dad and mum for taking care of my kids while i am enjoying myself as a teenager even for a few hours..  My husband fetched us after work… had his dinner with us..and i am a mummy again!

Every mother deserve a ‘time out’.. we still wants to have fun .. mmm without kids.. well.. since i won 2nd and 1st place at the car race game..i had great fun…!

I am sure.. my husband sure will look at this pretty babe’ instead of me.. if this girl walk in front of him… well its normal.. i wont stop him anyway.. lol.. this is a body to die for.  I would love to have this figure but .. sitting down whole day in the office and without exercise.. i don’t think so.

I know there are so many corsets in the market but you don’t need to wear any if you wear these two dress.

This yellow dress is an open back dress.   Since its open at the back..make sure you have lotion and foundation at your back.. mmm without pimples please … that’s what exactly its all about.. ’show your back‘.   Its sexy, you can wear it even if you have tummy..  because it don’t really show your tummy … but you need to have a big ‘..#*#**’ .. well look at the picture..

Same goes with this beautiful gown.. its safe for those with tummy like me.. its loose at the front.. people wont notice the tummy.

Ahem… excuse me.. this coctail gown.. you have to.. you cannot hide that small or big tummy of yours dear.  But if you really want to wear this..play safe… use a beautiful shawl to cover it.. probably silk or organza.. .  I am sure you will look beautiful.. well only your husband know our little secret.

Yihaa.. its December.. a great month of the year.. everybody excited.. Christmas coming.. .. .. holidays!

So many family members celebrating birthday this month… i can’t really remember the date but there are…trengg.. teng ..teng..

My lovely niece turn 2 years old last week and my only sister in law Doreen @ mummy yin… i love to send you one of a few beautiful gift baskets for this special occasion .. your birthday and Christmas..

We miss you this year’s Christmas.. we are happy yet so sad without you guys…what is your plan this coming Christmas? we have no plan yet.. our mastermind.. leader.. is with you.. ggrrr.. he will figure out how to celebrate Christmas in Adelaide .. hope you will have great celebration even without us.  If  we are unable to send gifts for the kids.. we will send it through Shella.. next year.. hahaha.. Merry Christmas!

We have an aquarium but when my hubby went back to KL last year and we thought we will follow suit .. we gave it away to our parents.  My husband have been thinking to get the aqua back from my parents..well mum doesn’t like to clean the aqua so she gladly wants us to get it.

He got the aquarium last week..so after attending the sunday mass in Sacred Heart Church, we went to a fish shop near our housing area in Penampang.

My husband wanted to buy angelfish.. haiya dont remember the name.. but its not easy to maintain..furthermore, i scared my kids will disturb it.. so he considering cheaper fish.

Everybody having problem to decide what type of fish they want.

‘Come on Chrissa.. you decide’… Sean asked her sister…

Its either this…

or this type…

or this cute pupplish fish…

well we ended up.. buying nothing… kids dissapointed… back home while they were sleeping.. daddy bought fishes and come… taaraa.. 10 different type of fish..and it cost.. rm30.00

Picture inside the aquarium.. other fishes were hiding…

I enjoy looking at my kids when they saw the fishes… now school holiday.. they just stay at home with the maid.. so whenever i said.. ‘we are going out’.. they look so happy… and when i asked my daughter whether she wants to go to school next year or stay at home with kak fina… her replied ‘no.. i dont want school and i dont want kakak fina’… so where do you want to stay.. ‘ ‘i want mummy’.. I feel so happy that she wanted me to be with her.. i wish i can do home business so that i can look after them and have income at the same time… sigh.. but i guess i am unable to that at this state of time.